Last night was the biweekly meeting of my art support group. The group consists of four women artists.
Two of us are painters, one is a fiber artist and I’m the printmaker but that doesn’t matter.
We have varying commitments to our art in terms of time and livelihood but that doesn’t really matter either.
What does matter is that we have created a space amongst the four of us where we can share the most intimate pieces of our lives, including our art. This is where pieces are shown first. This is where ideas are introduced and tested. It’s where we can admit our shortcomings and celebrate our victories, personal and artistic. It’s where we can talk about our fears and brag about our accomplishments ad nauseum and no one actually vomits. They cheer along with us or cry or hug or dance.
Why does this work so well?
Here are a couple of quotes for you:
Rosalind Russell – “Acting is standing up naked and turning around very slowly.”
So – Why does the group work? Because it’s safe. Because we know that what goes into the group, stays there. Because we know that no matter what, we will get loving honesty from one another. Because we depend on each other for support and we have committed ourselves to give support as it’s needed.
From what other people tell me, what we have in our group is special and not easy to find. I’m not sure how we got so lucky to find the right people to make it work so well. We’re all very different in our personalities and our art. We don’t always agree. But it is a safe place. Maybe it’s because we have thrown all of ourselves into the group and not just our art. We have celebrated weddings and births as well as shows. There has been divorce and disappointment.
Making art is personal. It is standing up naked. It is discarding your armor. When you can do that in front of friends who love you and know that you are safe and loved, it is amazingly powerful.
I have found that in this group of special women. I can take the power that we make together and go out into the world.